_edited.jpg)
Session
You are not broken. You are not alone.
Do you feel confused, disconnected, or even ashamed about your sexuality? Maybe no one ever taught you how to explore your own pleasure. Maybe you’ve learned to prioritise everyone else’s needs above your own. Maybe sex has always been about performance, obligation, or just “getting it over with.”
If this sounds like your experience, it doesn’t have to stay this way.
Here, you get a safe space to slow down and start reconnecting with yourself. Together, at your own pace, we’ll explore your desires, your body, your boundaries, and your pleasure. You’ll learn how to listen to yourself, connect to your body, ask for what you want, and experience intimacy that feels nourishing instead of draining.
You deserve sex that feels good for you.
You deserve connection that feels real.
You deserve pleasure that is yours.
What We Can Work On Together
Discovering what you want.
Maybe you’ve never been sure what you want from sex or intimacy, or you’ve always gone along with what your partner wants. Here, you’ll have space to slow down, listen to your body and explore your desires.
Understanding your body and your pleasure.
You might be wondering what actually feels good for you, or why orgasm feels so difficult or even impossible. You deserve to know your own body and what brings you pleasure.
Talking about sex with your partner.
Conversations about sex can feel terrifying, awkward, or like they always go in circles. We’ll work on finding ways to talk about your needs, desires, and boundaries in ways that feel safe and empowering.
Moving away from performance.
If sex has always been something you do for your partner, or if it’s felt like a performance rather than connection, you’re not alone. Together, we’ll shift toward sex that feels meaningful, intimate, and enjoyable for you.
Prioritising yourself without guilt.
So many people put others’ needs first, in and out of the bedroom. We’ll work on what it looks like to centre your pleasure and your needs, without feeling selfish.
When sex has never been “mind-blowing.”
Maybe sex has never felt like what people describe in movies, magazines, or conversations with friends. Maybe it’s been painful, confusing, or just “fine.” We’ll explore what’s possible for you, without pressure or comparison.
Areas I work with
-
Performance anxiety
-
Mismatched libido
-
Low/high sexual desire
-
Exploring boundaries, consent, and safer ways to connect
-
Communication in relationships
-
ADHD, Autism and Neurodiversity
-
Increasing pleasure or desire
-
Difficulties with orgasm
-
Painful sex
-
Erectile dysfunction
-
Premature ejaculation
-
Increasing sexual confidence
-
Your relationship with masturbation
-
Untangling sexual shame from past experiences or messages you’ve absorbed
-
LGBTIQA+
-
Exploring sexuality, kink and desires
-
Navigating an STI diagnosis
Relationship Therapy
Sexual connection takes care and attention. Even in loving relationships, intimacy can fade or become stressful when desire changes, sex feels difficult, or conversations about it never seem to go well. At the Sexual Wellness Centre, therapy is a space to pause, talk openly, and begin to find your way back to a sexual connection that feels good for you and your partner/s.
Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, working through painful or unsatisfying sex, experiencing erectile difficulties or performance anxiety, recovering from sexual disconnection, or simply wanting to feel more pleasure and closeness with your partner/s, we’ll meet you with curiosity, compassion, and practical support to help you move forward together.
Sessions are available across Europe, UK and Australia.
-
Online sessions are available from 2:30pm-10pm Melbourne, Australia time.
-
Online sessions are available from 8am-4pm London, UK time.
-
Online sessions are available from 8am-5pm Amsterdam, Netherlands time.
Sex therapy or counselling
50 min
160 Australian dollars
Relationship therapy for sexological concern
50 min
180 Australian dollars
If you are experiencing financial hardship and would like to be offered sliding scale sessions please complete the form via the link HERE.
What is a sexologist?
A sexologist is somebody who has studied human sexuality and behaviour. A sexologist provides talk therapy, education and tools to support individuals with their sexual health, sexuality and sex life.
In a session, you can expect Emily to guide you through your reason for presenting. She will ask about your prior sexual and life experiences that are connected to your presenting issue. She will provide psycho-education, support and tools (homefun!) to help you navigate your sexuality and relationships. Online sessions are available to people worldwide except the US and Canada.
Sessions are queer and neuroaffirming.
Supervision
I receive a minimum of 3 hours of supervision a month. This includes individual, group and peer supervision. My supervision focuses on sex therapy, counselling, relationship therapy, trauma-informed approaches, and supporting neurodivergent and disabled folk.